If we want something then also we have to abide by the desire of the Supreme Personality of Godhead. Then he will fulfill your desires. That is the way to do things.
It is very important that we develop proper relationship with each other, that is an important aspect of Vaisnava Etiquette.
Greatest spiritual quality is inspite of being great; one considers himself as the lowest.
Ultimate goal of education is to become attached to Krishna.