Sense gratification means we are using the instrument (human body) meant for Liberation and for our Bondage.
Sense Gratification distances us from the Lord who is in the heart.
To serve Krishna means life and to engage in sense gratification means death.
If you think you will get nice house, so many facilities, then this is not Vrindavan. Where there is sense gratification, there is no Vrindavan. What Krishna gives, you be happy with that, with bare necessities. Then Radharani will allow you to stay here. Otherwise get lost! Live very simple. Then you can stay. Don’t do aparadha to any living entity.