Requirements For Breeding Actual Love
A lot of forgiveness, tolerance, respect, etc. is required in Kali Yuga to breed actual love.
Srila Prabhupada on Separation in The Spiritual World
Tears for Lord Krishna are as good as associating with Him personally. In the spiritual world separation is more valuable than meeting.
Way To Approach Krishna
If we approach Krishna in a leisurely way, then Krishna will give us some leisurely realization of Him. If we approach Krishna very urgently, desperately, with great need then Krishna will give us a very intense experience of His presence in our life.
Great Desperation For God
Unless we have hunger, we cannot digest properly, no matter how palatable the food is. It will not really benefit us. Similarly, there should be a great desperation that I need God, I need His mercy and then we can digest this topmost knowledge properly