Love means reciprocation. Therefore, you can’t love buildings or cars or money because there is no reciprocation.
Pure love of God is our nature, but we are so much diverted, so much distracted by the externals that we’ve forgotten that it’s our essence.
Seeing other people in terms of their desires rather than your own is the basic principle of loving them. Whenever there are differences, be respectful.
God sees not only our bodies, but he sees our desires, motivations, intentions and he is only pleased when there is love. If we do not have love in our hearts, God sees, but he is not pleased to see us.