Patience
Don’t be envious. Don’t find faults. Be humble & tolerant. Have patience in all circumstances.
Attitude of a Vaishnava
You should develop attitude of a Vaishnava. You have to develop vaishnava etiquettes and other qualities. Then the process will be right. In absence of these things, everything will be hollow. These external formalities will have no meaning & value.
Gain
If you simply surrender, you will be decorated with all the vaishnava qualities.
Stick to one Person
Stick to one person like a chaste lady. Don’t try to take advice from here and there, otherwise you will fall down.