The real fiber which is preliminary for entering into the spiritual realm of God is the art of surrender and discipline is the prerequisite to learn the art of surrender.
Pure devotees of Lord are associates of Lord. To associate means to surrender unto them and surrender means to follow their instructions.
The ultimate surrendering object is Krishna.
Surrender simply means keeping God’s will before our own.
Do not think that if we surrender to God we will be a loser. We will not lose anything except bondage, frustration and suffering. That is all we will lose.
Unless and until we surrender to Krishna, Krishna is not going to take our responsibility.