In this world of Maya, which is averse to the Lord, full of trials and tribulations, only patience, humility and respect for others are our friends for Hari bhajana.
The Lord puts His devotees in various difficulties and associations to test their patience and strength of mind. Success depends on their good fortune.
Look within. Amend yourself, rather than prying into the frailities of others.
Prema (Divine Love), the fruit of the creeper of Bhakti, grows on the creeper only when she attains to the Feet of Krishna. All this time the gardener continues to splash the creeper with the water of hearing and chanting the Holy Name of Krishna.