Even if devotees excuse those who insult them, Krishna takes a diffrent position and he is strict on this matter. Krishna will not excuse or tolerate any insult of his devotees. If we want to please Krishna, we must never insult his devotees. — Lecture on Bhagavad Gita, 01.26-27, London, 1973.
Total absorption in playing flute for pleasure of Lord Krishna.
For the pleasure of the Lord, His devotees call Him by His Holy Name to render service unto Him, not to fulfill their own desires.
One does not need great wealth, education or opulence to satisfy the Supreme Personality of Godhead. If one is fully absorbed in love and ecstasy, he needs to offer only a flower and a little water.
Srimad-Bhagavatam 5.3.6,
Srila Prabhupada
Most people worship God as their order supplier. But Vrindavan consciousness is simply to give pleasure to Krishna and to not expect anything in return except the opportunity to serve. And when we chant the holy names with this spirit, Krishna reveals himself in full.
Krishna tells in Bhagavad Gita, "Ananyas Cintayanto Mam Ye Janah Paryupasate" that if we just approach him with sincerity, then He will carry what we lack and preserve what we have". Just put your sincere and honest efforts to please Krishna then all your hearts, desires for the welfare of others can be fulfilled.