In order to have simplicity of mind one must have simplicity of life style, which means one must be detached from gain or loss, pleasure or pain, honor or dishonor, happiness or distress. One must simply be seeking purification of consciousness.
A devotee seeing other devotees getting blessed, seeing other devotees being empowered, seeing other devotees joyful, that should be our happiness. That is a Vaishnava, that is the standard of Vaishnava.
If you are happy to see other devotees being blessed, you will go back to Godhead, Krishna will bless you.
One goes up by pushing others up and one goes down by pushing others down.