You are female in relationship with the Lord that’s your position just surrender, you are meant for Lord’s enjoyment, you are to be enjoyed, not that your are enjoyer, this is when the spiritual life begins with this proper understanding, otherwise no one really understands who is who?
We have to be very enthusiastic and eager to accomplish wonderful things for God, but it must always be with a focus on the higher principle. It must always be harmonized with the higher principle of pleasing Him.
Practical action is the best way to show our determination. So while chanting, we should show our determination to be attentive. This attracts Krishna's attention.
By chanting of Hare Krishna, you have the Lord with you and He satisfies you. He pleases you. You are pleased with your Lord. He is also the Lord of your heart.