There cannot be love without trust and there cannot be trust unless we take the responsibility to act in a way that people can trust us.
There may be unlimited reasons for us to argue and not co-operate but there is one sufficient reason for us to love and co-operate, that is, it is pleasing to God.
Of the nine processes of devotional service, the most important is to always chant the holy name of the Lord. If one does so, avoiding the ten kinds of offenses, one very easily obtained the most valuable love of Godhead.
Chaitanya Caritamrta Antya Lila 4.71
According to purity of love, there is satisfaction.
If someone tries to love someone, they are very sincere because sincerity is one aspect of love. So if we are trying to love Krishna, we should pray – Krishna, I want to do my japa properly, sincerely. Please help me.
Always remember that the environment around us is positive and favourable. Krishna personally arranges it for our improvement and spiritual elevation. Learn to see all with love and you will see love everywhere!