In many lives you had husband, wife,son or whatever. Give one life for Krishna. He is your mother, father and everything and see what He gives. Whatever attachment you have, you put it in Krishna and His devotee’s service. See how Krishna responds. All these things are temporary and binding to the material existence. If you serve Krishna and get attachment to Krishna, then this will make you free from material entanglements.
To do devotional service, to chant attentively, one has to be pure in mind. To be pure in mind, one has to be pure in action. To be pure in action, one has to be pure in what he eats and with whom he associates.
Opportunity is knocking, “Tak Tak Tak”. Devotee is supposed to be thoughtful, How much have I become purified?
One has to be fortunate to see or meet the lord. If you see, in a dream Krishna or deity, He may ask you, you told Me you will give me mango, where is my mango? You have to be fortunate, you have to be pure. These things are happening.