Get Out of The Material World
Material world is not ment for settling down, but for getting out.
Material world is not ment for settling down, but for getting out.
Surrenderance is the substance of devotional service.
As a kshatriya has no problems while taking the wounds on his chest. similarly a devotee has no problems taking wounds while serving Krishna.
If you want to develop a particular quality, then serve the devotee who has that quality.